how you say “my love” in thug?: On Pickup Artists, Consent, and Why I'm Actually Mad


This week, one of my favorite websites, much to my dismay, posted a really frustrating interview with/apologia for Ken Hoinsky, an author of pickup artist-type dating advice, written by Maria Bustillos. I won’t go into the backstory here, because I’m going to assume you know it and are sick of…

Great piece from fellow Bostonian @lilybenson. The modus operandi of PUA are generally despicable.